True love never dies.
You know there is a fine like between just liking someone and loving someone. The difference is hard to tell sometimes but over the years and through the countless crushes that I have had I have learned the difference. I can’t explain the difference but trust, me you will know it when you feel it.
Many years ago I got a crush on a girl and, the crush somehow escalated to love and to be honest she is the only person I have actually felt love for. It was a strange feeling for me to feel. Never in a million years would I have thought that I, Mathew Richerd Bell would ever be able to feel love for someone else.
Her name was Michelle Marie Evans and in my eyes she was perfect. She had long blond hair, beautiful blue eyes, and an amazing body even though she never thought so. Now this girl started off as a stranger. Oh sure I seen her around town when I went walking, a girl like her is hard to miss, but I never said anything to her because she was so pretty it intimidated me but one day while I was sitting on a bench in the middle of main street just watching traffic something happened.
I seen her standing across the street admiring a dress in a store window and I couldn’t stop myself from staring. I guess she felt me looking at her because she looked over my way and we locked eyes for a very brief moment in time. But in that brief moment my heart started pounding, my breath got caught in my throat, and a strange feeling was fluttering around in my stomach. I had no clue what was going on but all I knew is that I didn’t quite like what I was feeling…but at the same time I did. I quickly looked away hoping I didn’t creep her out. I noticed her walking my way a few minutes later. ‘She seen me staring at her.’ I thought, ‘She’s coming over here to tell me how much of a creep I am for staring at her. What if I say something weird? What if she slaps me for staring at her? (I tend to over think things sometimes) What if-‘ ‘My thoughts were interrupted by her sitting next to me and saying,
“Hey.”
‘Oh my God.’ I thought, ‘She is talking to me. What do I say?’
“Hey.” She repeated again.
“H-hey there.” I somehow manage to say.
“What’s up?”She shoots a smile at me.
“Oh, not much. Just sitting here watching traffic. What about you?” I return the smile.
“That’s not all you were watching sir.”
‘Oh crap, here comes the slap.’
“Why were you looking at me like that?”
“I…um…I don’t know…I’m sorry.
“Tell me the truth please…I want to know why you were staring at me. She spoke in a firm, but not harsh voice.
‘What the hell,’ I thought, ‘I might as well go for it.’ I took a deep breath in and said, “You’re the most gorgeous thing I have ever seen in my life, and I just couldn’t take my eyes away from you. I know people probably tell you this a lot but, you’re the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on.” I braced myself for a slap.
She gets a puzzled look on her face. “Why are you doing that?”
“Doing what?”
“Clenching your face like that.”
“Oh, well to be honest I thought you were going to slap me.”
She started to laugh. “Why on earth would I slap you silly? That was so sweet!”
Her telling me that made me smile. “May I ask your name, miss?”
“My name is Michelle Marie Evans. What’s your’s?
“What?…Oh, ummm…it’s…ummm.” ‘Think man think. How can you forget your name?’
“Well are you going to tell me?”
At last I remember and say with a bit more enthusiasm than I intended, “Matt. My name is Matt Bell.”
She chuckled and said, “Well Matt, That’s a cute name.”
And from that moment on we were no longer strangers.
One thing led to another and eventually after about two years of talking, and me asking countless times, she agreed to go on a date with me that ended in a kiss and from that first kiss I knew my crush was no longer a crush…I was in love with her and that realization both scared and excited me. I had always avoided people in life every since I lost my family. I never got close to anyone because I started to assume that all people were bad and even if there were good people left I would be better off without them in my life. I just figured that without people in my life I would have it easier…but she changed all that. She showed me the good and she made me realize that I could feel this thing called love. I thought to myself, ‘This is it. This is what love feels like. Love isn’t bad at all…love is great!’ Boy I sure was wrong though.
You see about a year later the very God she believed in did something horrible. The God she believed in with all her heart and soul, the God she prayed to every night, gave her cancer…and it was inoperable and the doctors said she was going to to die within a year.
Now I could have left and sparred myself the hurt of watching her go through all the pain but I couldn’t do that. I couldn’t leave her when she needed me the most and I thought that if I stayed that she would return the favor and not leave me. I stayed by her side every day. When all her hair fell out I stayed, when she cried I cried with her, when she was in so much pain that she begged for death I was there holding her hand telling her it would be okay, and two years later when she used her last breath to whisper I love you I was there holding her hand.
When she left I tried to fight the tears but it was no use. I cried for months, cursed the very God she taught me to believe in, and finally drank myself into an early grave thinking that if I were dead the pain would go away…but even in death I’m still crying over her, I still wander this earth as invisible as the wind and as silent as a teardrop. The only thing that brings me even a little bit of happiness are the memories that once was but never will be again.
By T.J. Tom 9/19/2013 edited 9/20/2013